Ce este iubirea? Dezabonat

adaugat de dooroo cu 8 luni in urma

“Tell me, what is love? … Love is first widening my eyes a little bit and quickening my breathing a little and warming my skin and touching … And so on, exactly so. Thank you, Sheila.” (Artificial Intelligence, 2001)


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adaugat de vaxalbina cu 8 luni in urma
"Atât de mult o iubeam eu pe ea
că însuşi cerul se curba
albastru."

o definitie mai profunda ca a lui Nichita nu poate exista
adaugat de silvia1 cu 8 luni in urma

Iubire este atunci cand suntem compatibili in minte si-n suflet, atunci cand ne respectam si ne ascultam, atunci cand ne pasa, cand nu vrem sa ne schimbam unul pe celalalt nici macar in mod subtil, iubire este atunci cand simtim ca ne canta sufletul, cand ti-e de-ajuns o privire, cand te oglindesti in celalalt, cand nu-ti retii firescul lacrimilor de bucuria regasirii si tristetea despartirii.

adaugat de florinmihail cu 8 luni in urma

si poate ca este o dorinta de regasire a unei fuziuni originare care ne bantuie toata viata:)

adaugat de noelle cu 8 luni in urma

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adaugat de dooroo cu 8 luni in urma

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adaugat de monika2 cu 7 luni in urma

ce frumos vorbiti despre iubire,daca ati pune toate cuvintele astea frumoase in aplicare si in realitate,ce bine ar fi.....

adaugat de mariustm1 cu 7 luni in urma

ce frumos vorbiti despre iubire,daca ati pune toate cuvintele astea frumoase in aplicare si in realitate,ce bine ar fi.....



Dar de unde stii tu ca nu se si pun???

adaugat de dooroo cu 7 luni in urma

Steinbeck:


 


 


New York
November 10, 1958


Dear Thom:


We had your letter this morning. I will answer it from my point of view and of course Elaine will from hers.


First — if you are in love — that’s a good thing — that’s about the best thing that can happen to anyone. Don’t let anyone make it small or light to you.


Second — There are several kinds of love. One is a selfish, mean, grasping, egotistical thing which uses love for self-importance. This is the ugly and crippling kind. The other is an outpouring of everything good in you — of kindness and consideration and respect — not only the social respect of manners but the greater respect which is recognition of another person as unique and valuable. The first kind can make you sick and small and weak but the second can release in you strength, and courage and goodness and even wisdom you didn’t know you had.


You say this is not puppy love. If you feel so deeply — of course it isn’t puppy love.


But I don’t think you were asking me what you feel. You know better than anyone. What you wanted me to help you with is what to do about it — and that I can tell you.


Glory in it for one thing and be very glad and grateful for it.


The object of love is the best and most beautiful. Try to live up to it.


If you love someone — there is no possible harm in saying so — only you must remember that some people are very shy and sometimes the saying must take that shyness into consideration.


Girls have a way of knowing or feeling what you feel, but they usually like to hear it also.


It sometimes happens that what you feel is not returned for one reason or another — but that does not make your feeling less valuable and good.


Lastly, I know your feeling because I have it and I’m glad you have it.


We will be glad to meet Susan. She will be very welcome. But Elaine will make all such arrangements because that is her province and she will be very glad to. She knows about love too and maybe she can give you more help than I can.


And don’t worry about losing. If it is right, it happens — The main thing is not to hurry. Nothing good gets away.


Love,


Fa

adaugat de torax cu 6 luni in urma

pe scurt : pentru mine iubirea inseamna dorinta de bine...facere de bine,daruire fara multa patima...cu toata relativitatea binelui....ei acuma sa nu faceti trimitere la proverbul "ala" ca fac scandal:)


in forme mai grave poate insemna senzatia ca tu nu contezi,in comparatie cu celalalt :)

adaugat de dooroo cu 6 luni in urma

Pai insusi binele e o chestie relativa. Daca un om e concediat ca sa-i iau eu locul imi e mie bine dar daca as fi eu concediat? Pot blama binele celui angajat in locul meu? Iar cu futerea de mama ...si-aia poate fi iubire  ;)  de ce n-ar fi un astfel de incest izvorat din iubire? Sau ..ma rog, poate fi numita asa de catre cine crede ca face bine si in acest mod. Iubirea si binele cred ca sunt compatibile (prin comparatie) ca si canapeaua calduta pusa in varful unei stanci in mijlocul viscolului. Si-asta ca atunci cand iubesti esti complet altul: pe jumatate nebun, 90% copil, alte trei sferturi maniaco-depresiv ca nu poti sa-ti bagi acea fiinta in propriile vene, sa fiti o singura fiinta. 

adaugat de Isabellyn cu 6 luni in urma

Iubire = Sacrificiul suprem

adaugat de dooroo cu 6 luni in urma
adaugat de bahia cu 6 luni in urma

In cuvinte am intales, Dar practica oare o avem?

adaugat de dooroo cu 6 luni in urma

In cuvinte am intales, Dar practica oare o avem?



Avem??? Cred ca mai corect era sa intrebi (intrebati): "Dar practica o aveti" - "avem" te implica si pe tine(voi) si nu cred ca nu esti constient(a) de ceea ce simti (simtiti). .. Si cred ca mai degraba aici, pe acest topic,  sunt cuvinte frumoase despre  senzatii si trairi sporadice. Nu putem sa le "avem" mereu...si-apoi, dac-ar fi mereu, n-am mai vorbi asa frumos despre iubire  ;)

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